Distance...The Hardest Things to Maintain a Very Close Relationship

In my opinion, distance is the main important things to maintain a very close relationship. A good friend may become a stranger if both of their distance is far away and if both of them do not have the intention to keep in touch then this friendship will become colourless. A relationship need both of the party to contribute times and intention to do. Even friendship also need some time to build up.

Distance is a transparent "killer" for a relationship. No matter it is friendship or loveship, distance will be the factor to both of them to maintain a close realtionship. Human being is hot-blood, we need a physical body to comfort us.

Besides that, intention among themselves is important to maintain close relationship. Human are emotional, relationship is easily breakable like glass or colourless.

Like i and one of my good fren, after she further study to Australia, we are less contact. Although we can meet online but we seldom chat. Maybe she is busy or maybe she might not have mood to talk. Our distance is further no matter physically or mentally. However, she keeps remember me when she is back. She will ask me to hang out, bring me Australia's product. Our chat topic become less. Maybe the lifestyle between us is totally different and she is a quiet person. What I trying to say is our relationship not as close as during the secondary school. I remember that in previous time... although we are in same school but different class (after a year same class), we keep contact in writing letter to each other to talk about our recent life and so on. Maybe somebody thought we are so stupid to write letters to each other while you can see each other everyday in school. But i enjoyed the process and the time i received the letter from her. It is so nice somebody still keep contact with letter. Letter~~many people nowadays lazy to write letters. So i am so lucky still can receive letter but now no more. :(

Time is also a factor. Busy lifestyle cause people busy on the current works, people, money and other material things. So people may eager to find and reach what they desire and forget about the relationship among people no matter family, spouse, or friends.